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I decided I should do something. But I needed advice on whether to click the unfriend button or the reply button.
Social psychologist Dr Keon West says it depends on what messagf trying to achieve. I can just hear them now - "You're just playing the race card. It actually scarred me a bit, to be honest. But she believes by sharing her thoughts it might make him think about how other people feel. A lot of people did listen and said, 'Thanks for sharing your knowledge' and went Horny woman of Columbia to educate others and I think that's important.
But they may be aware that other people do not appreciate their behaviour. He calls it the "what-about-ery" - meaning "what about me? I can't help but roll my eyes - I'm tired of it all.
Time to click that unfriend button. Follow Cherry on Twitter: cherryewilson Here is a selection of readers' experiences as told to us: I posted a comment on Facebook which was clumsy - I suggested that all forms of oppression and barriers should be removed for all folks.
I was using "all" in the sense that none should be left behind. However, my words were interpreted to mean the opposite, which created upset.
So I would say this: engage with the individual. Don't dismiss them as stupid, ask them what they mean. James, Milton Keynes I'm mixed race and have had the same dilemma when seeing casual racism on my news feed. Initially I started to challenge the posts but it started to have an impact on my mental health so I took the decision to unfriend. I'm grateful that I've had black and white friends check in on me during this time unfriemd make sure I'm OK.
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Michelle, Sheffield, UK I am a white retired police officer. I would advise anyone to not share any racist articles with me and if they continued I would have to unfriend them. The colour of one's skin, their religion or status should not be used to judge someone. I choose my unfrienc by how they treat others and what is in their heart. Bud, Findlay, USA I've had to take myself off all social media channels as it was really getting to me and making me feel depressed.
I am a white woman married to a Muslim man and we've laughed off instances that on reflection were mezsage racist. When he offered to light a lady's measage at our unfriend message pub she said: "I thought you were going Sexy women wants casual sex Nephi stab me.
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Last week it got to the point where I not only blocked her, I reported her to the police. Jonathan, UK I am a white man, and I have no idea how to approach this issue. I've been told that replying is just being a "band-wagon liberal", a "libtard" and a "wannabe white-saviour". Conversely, I've been told that not replying, blocking, or unfriending is "white silence" or meszage lack of caring.
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It's easier to discuss it with people who agree. Maybe I'm a coward. I don't know the answer.
Sam, Liverpool, UK I was bought messagd in a mainly white racist area in the 80's and my own mum lied about my race, telling people I was white - it wasn't until recently she admitted I was mixed race. I put up with vile ignorant treatment all through school, and this was unpleasant and quite damaging. So now I press delete.
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It took up far too much of my time as a young girl and I don't want it to take up any more of my precious time. We have two young children. I have unfriended seven people this week because of the racially insensitive material they have messagf sharing ranging from "jokes" about monkeys being akin to protesters to more serious racist propaganda.
Some of them are friends of old and some unfrifnd become friends through business. I felt sad and disgusted. In the end I defriended as it was a constant argument. Makes me sick to the stomach as I've known this person over 30 years. She thought because I'm white I'd agree with her views, at least now she knows that is definitely not the case.
I asked if he knew where "black face" had come from and why it was not acceptable, he had no clue. He is now reading and learning. I see a good positive change of attitude coming in the future. Messae, Sussex, UK My friend shared a post that said: "Why are we demonstrating in England over a guy who died 1, miles away when no demonstration took place when white girls were raped in Rotherham? Also that msssage injustice of what happened to George Want bbw tonight has angered people of all races.
I don't know if it will change him but at least he knows where I stand.